4.) Know Your Limits and Abide By Them

4.) Know Your Limits and Abide By Them

You should never "bite off more than you can chew". This applies to not only what you can get done during the holidays, but also what you can afford to spend. Don't over-extend yourself or your finances. Remember, the thing that people will remember most is that you were there with them, spending precious time to celebrate the joy of being together and not the physical gifts they received. YOU are worth more than a little "trinket". And that is what will create lasting memories for everyone! And, don't be too harsh on yourself for not getting that expensive video game for Johnny or that collectible doll for Jane. Do what you can and nothing more. Don't place high expectations on yourself, and don't make promises you simply cannot keep. Limiting what you can realistically do will help reduce the stresses you put on yourself.